The 7/11 guy that ruined my sleep

Fellow blogger bkkdreamer has already extensively posted on his 7/11 (boy) experience here and here.

Now it's my turn. This has long been a topic in my daily life, not recently anymore though. But this morning at 5:06am it became rather current again.

Let me tell you the story from the beginning.

I realised 7/11 guy likes me about 3 weeks after I moved in my place here. He worked at the local 7/11 at nights and I'd often go out late to get some water or juice or whatever I needed. (condoms were not bought from there - EVER). We flirted a lot and even though he is not what we would call a classic Thai beauty, I thought he had something nice in his eyes, life and honesty. Then, I turned up with my friend, the badminton sixpack, a hot (the name says it) and handsome man from Bangkok (central Thai look). That made 7/11 guy jealous. He immediately asked me the next time where I lived and whether that was my boyfriend and whether I lived alone etc. Things looked up. Things looked even more up as I saw him one day outside of the shop getting some food. I stopped and asked for his number and name. I called him and the next day he was in my place before he went to work - to chat a bit. Nonononono, there was no sex. He was shy and I could feel that, so I thought lets take it slowly.

From then on things went downhill. Either he was disappointed I didnt fuck the hell out of him, or he was not quite content with my place or he became even more shy, whatever it was but mister 7/11 guy didnt answer my calls anymore. Then one day I saw him outside the shop at midnight drinking with his friends. I joined and we had a good time. Then we walked around (he was with his two ubiquitous girlfriends). He hugged me and then we parted.

That was it - for about 2 months... except I sent him messages when I was drunk like "Kit teung na ja pii xxx (I miss you older "brother" xxx)". He seemed to have less working hours and the 7/11 was closed for a month for renovation.

Until this morning at exactly 5:06am.

Me: " Hello".

7/11 guy: "Hello, can I come to you? I work at 7/11 now"

Me: "Ahmmmmmm.......I just woke up"

7/11 guy: "I want to see you now"

Me: "Did you change jobs I didnt see you for a long time"

7/11 guy: "Yes, can I see you now. I work tonight too."

Me: "Ahm.....I just woke up........."

7/11 guy: "Ok, sorry, bye."

Up to you to think what you want. I am still confused as to WHY and especially WHY AT 5:06AM he had to call to see my right now. Even though I was about 85% asleep even when I talked to him, I remember that he was seriously nervous. After the call, I had to do something and then fell asleep. I dreamt about giving 7/11 guy a blowjob and then that was all set up in Korea. When I was finished he left me and I was sad. Oh and I also dreamt of the bamboo diva (see in other posts) and of watching a football game in England in a deserted town, where I caught a train. Ok YOU try to make sense of that. That sounds like I am a bit fucked up.

I think his girlfriends told him to to call me or something. My answer to his weirdness is not conclusive at all, here a few possibilities:

1. "He has a (farang) bf": He hardly EVER takes the phone and speaks passable English. Yet he denied when I asked him if he had a boyfriend.


2. "He is SHY.": That's very possible. But the ones who say they are shy are generally not.


3. "He is bored by me." Possible. I think we are both more on the feminine side of things. I dont care about that at all - but Thais do!!! But he loves touching me....even in 7/11 when he is working!!!

I called him just before - but no answer of course. Let me go see him in 7/11 later and see what the bangkokbitch-7/11 guy-saga will hold for us today.

ADDITION: I went to 7/11. The guy was there and VERY VERY shy. He said sorry and he was in the disco and a bit drunk...ok lets see what happens next.