Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Your friend dates your ex...


How could so many gay-related things happen, if I live happily in a relationship, dont go out to party much and dont go on dates with boys...?

But this is Bangkok, so gays are everywhere. And if you tell them that you have a boyfriend already, they will a)think you are still fuckable and b)will try to flirt you even more to win the competition...

I am not complaining though, it's fun to flirt a little bit. There are four different stories worth updating...crazy!


1. the condo technician. he is on camfrog as we speak, and was basically naked as I walked past his office before as I came home. I have the feeling he is giving a show to the public...

he also asked me earlier this week to come and watch porn with him. and he came to look for me when I was in the shower after a late-night swim...spooky stuff! I smelled the cigarette smoke but didnt hear him...

2. the badminton policeman. he is after all a POST man...I joined badminton last weekend even though my friend wasnt coming. That made it a lot more fun though.

I talked a lot to the postman and I must admit that I like him just a little big. He's a sweet guy. He complained that he doesnt have my telephone number, so I guess I had to give it...


3. The "classmate". Well he is in the new class anyway...I have added him on facebook, where I can see him ski in America and pose in Japan and on dinners at the British Embassy. On his facebook, he has about 400 friends, all Thai.

Am I impressed? No, I dont like hi-so people. Down to earth is the way to go!!!

I met him again on the toilet as he was putting on make-up on his face. I went into the cubicle and he just continued talking to me. That was annoying because I couldnt .... empty my bladder...


4. The real classmate, the guy I mentioned before when I wrote about Thais and who impresses me. He impresses me. Smart guy, very considerate, perfect English.

We are very close friends. He could be something like a "chef's recommendation."


Today we had lunch together at university, when he told me: "bb I have to tell you something, I dated someone you dated too."


I knew who it was. The hi-so guy whom I met twice back in September 08. He took me out to dinner, massaged me with oil and took me out for lunch again later. Then, I stopped contact because he was rude.


My classmate was so jealous of me at the time, so I gave him hi-so-guy's phone number - for fun. Classmate took it seriously and they started dating, only recently apparently.


The hi-so guy wanted to be boyfriends with my classmate even, but he refused and they stopped contact.


How odd...I mean normally you dont date your friend's ex-dates...I dont quite mind so much but I find it odd that me, as a farang, brought two Thais together.


All in all I really dont mind, although my classmate could have spared me the details: "Isnt his body perfect?" He asked. I grumbled.



6 comments:

Michael Lomker said...

>normally you dont date your friend's ex-dates

I run into that a lot where I live (Minnesota). If you like Asian men then it's inevitable...there are only so many Asian guys that go out to the clubs and like Caucasians.

BB said...

Hello Michael

yes that may be true where you have small circles of people (e.g. Minnesota:) or even Silom and online dating services such as gayromeo)

it's still weird though...

Prkmk said...

from your several circumstances, flirting further more with Mr. Postman would be the best idea.

and what's wrong with young Thai generation right now. They seem to be so annoying. I wouldn't dare dating young boys anymore.

BB said...

I'll see him again tonight...he's a very sweet man. To be honest, I wouldnt date a young Thai either...as you might have found out from my blog.

Looking though is ok, touching would be ok too (if I wouldnt have my Korean darling already:)

aurix said...

there was this guy who was into both me and my very close friend. he'd known my friend longer and decided to hit on him first (or maybe he just was into the friend more!) my friend wasn't very nto him. later the guy hit on me, and i was actually interested, but couldn't/didn't want to do anything (even though i also wanted to..)

i don't think i'll ever be able to date my friends' ex-dates, even if there weren't really dating. too weird. also in my situation i felt like i was his second choice. which i was!

then much much later during a night out, both my friend and i were in the mood for hook-ups (these things happen), so we both flirted with him. he was like, 'sorry, i'm seeing someone. i'm crazy about him.'

c'est la vie.

BB said...

I think this sounds like your guy likes to shop around a lot...dont loose your head over these birds:)